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Is This You?

  • Are you a member of the adoption triad?
  • Are you contemplating or involved in a search OR are you in any phase of reunion?
  • Are you struggling with thoughts and emotions that are confusing or overwhelming?
  • Are you unsure about how to move forward?

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Let's walk together toward the light of understanding
 

Are some of the following statements true for you?

 

If you are in the search phase...

  • I think I want to search, but I'm not really sure.  I don't know how a search will affect my life.
  • I am searching and I am frustrated and angry.  I feel obsessed with the search and the rest of my life seems unimportant or burdensome.
  • I have found some contact information and now I don't know what to do.  I feel like everything in my life is hanging on this one decision.

If you are or were in a reunion..

  • I have made contact and I didn't find the kind of person I thought I would.  I feel disappointed and I am unsure what to do next. I am terrified of doing something wrong.
  • No one I live with or work with seems to understand me and I feel more alone and different than ever before.  I don't know how to bring my new family member into my existing family - or if I even should.
  • This reunion is moving too slowly or too quickly for me.  I need the other person to understand how much contact I want.
  • I have feelings of guilt and shame and I don't know how to work through them.  I feel like everything I do hurts someone.  How can Ii do what I need to with these feelings controlling me?
  • I have been rejected and I can't get over it.  I don't care about the things I used to and I feel sad all the time.  I am angry and stuck.

You are likely to benefit from working with me if…

  • You view adoption as a major element in your life at this time.
  • You are ready to use your adoption experience as a catalyst for growth and change.
  • You are motivated to be emotionally balanced and are willing to take some risks to achieve this result.
  • You value new perspectives and challenges.
  • You are willing to learn new things, think new thoughts and change some existing behaviors.
  • You are ready to commit to honest, straightforward discussions and willing to face your fears.
  • You are willing to move outside your comfort zone.
  • You are capable of being kind, gentle and compassionate - to yourself and others.
  • You are excited about making some shifts in your life and able to commit time to this process.

 

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I wanted to thank you for opening my eyes to what has been in front of me for years.  Now I'm not scared to cross that bridge. I'm well aware of the risks and chances that I might be left disappointed, but I'm willing to take the chance and grow from whatever may come. ~ Courtney, adoptee

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