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My Approach

What is it like to have your own Reunion Coach?

 

To help you understand the answer, I will explain the results we can achieve together and what my guiding beliefs and promises to you are. 

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Let us invite tomorrow to be a new day...

Your Expected Results

  • You will become clear about whether this is the right time to search and feel more in control of your emotions during the process.  You will control your search instead of it controlling you.  
  • You will find your unique way to make first contact in a secure and confident manner.
  • You will be able to accept the person you have found with an open and compassionate heart.
  • You will live with increased integrity as you bring this new person into your life and family with compassion for everyone, including yourself.
  • You will learn how to overcome your feelings of guilt, shame and embarrassment as you face this challenge and grow through it.
  • You will be able to move forward with your life with a sense of gratitude and wholeness, whether your reunion is "happily ever after" or not.

 

My Guiding Beliefs and Values
  • Gentle honesty is essential to living a life of integrity.
  • Learning to separate the reality of a situation from your perceptions of it yields unexpected clarity in any situation.
  • Determining the boundaries of personal responsibility reduces unnecessary burdens and simplifies the decision making process.
  • If you always do your best you can virtually eliminate regret and negative self judgement.
  • Learning to ask questions and express yourself clearly will dramatically reduce misunderstanding and emotional turmoil.
  • Everything happens in its own time and for the highest good, offering gifts to those who are open to receive them.

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Keep things simple and focused

You intuitively understand people - it is truly a gift - an amazing gift that not many people have.  You hear not just what they say, but all the things they don't say, but are feeling. ~ Cheryl, adoptee

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My Promises to You
  • I will appreciate that you and your situation are unique and unlike anyone else's.
  • I will promote an atmosphere of safety through a gentle and compassionate approach to your personal growth.
  • I will ask you thought provoking and intuitively driven questions to give you the opportunity to have your own "ah ha" moments.
  • I will encourage you to be totally honest with yourself so that your path to living a life of integrity is clear.
  • I am willing to put it all on the line and tell it like I see it, when that seems necessary and appropriate.
  • I believe your privacy is sacred and I will maintain a strict level of confidence within our relationship.

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Sometimes really opening up is hard for me...but with your gentle persuasion I can now. ~ Pam, adoptee

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